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Here's what: Homeownership is nightmarishly expensive

I bought a house back in December 2020, and I got lucky: My three-bedroom Philadelphia rowhome cost a very meager $210,000, and I even got my seller to agree to write a $10,000 check to the electrical company to redo all the wiring in my house. So, yeah, very lucky.

I was also pretty well prepared for the costs of homeownership — I had savings set aside for repairs and new furniture, and I knew there was more to buying a home than just the down payment and closing costs. But I don't think I could have prepared myself for exactly how expensive homeownership has been thus far.

In my roughly seven months in this house, I've spent over $11,000 on repairs alone. 

A few highlights:

  • New roofing and repairs to the masonry on the front of the house: $3,450
  • Emergency vinyl siding installation to repair a leak in the kitchen: $2,500
  • Brand new waste pipe: $1,377
  • HVAC service and repairs: $545 

The list goes on. The point is — this place is costing me a fortune. But there were a few things I did before buying the house that have kept me from stress-eating my own hair.

First of all, I bought less house than I could afford. I went from paying $2,000 a month in rent in Los Angeles to just over $1,200 a month for my mortgage, and those savings have helped me cover all my planned (and unexpected) costs.

I also had a few thousand dollars saved for necessary home stuff (like planned repairs), and I had a full emergency fund to cover me in the event of, well, an emergency.

And, finally, I automatically save $200 every month in a "house fund" in my high-yield savings account. Financial planners recommend saving between 1 and 4% of the value of your home each year to cover repairs, and I'm right in that range. This automatic savings means I always have a pot of money to spend on my house, no matter what's going on with the rest of my budget.

So, the moral of the story: Planning is absolutely key to homeownership, and you'll need more money than you think. Costs aside, though, I definitely sleep better at night knowing I own my house and a landlord can't jack up the rent or kick me out at a moment's notice.

Stephanie Hallett, senior editor of Personal Finance Insider and Certified Educator in Personal Finance


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